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Jeff Berger-White's avatar

Thank you for this, Devin.

The first thing I thought of while reading this beautiful, brilliant piece was part of an interview Ross Gay did with Krista Tippett when he says that:

"if you and I know we’re each in the process [of dying] there is something that will happen between us. There’s some kind of tenderness that might be possible — not always going to happen because I might just get scared and do something else. But there’s the potential, I think, for some kind of tenderness."

And then I thought of another James Wright poem, which highlights, I think, that kind of tenderness and mercy in action. Here is that poem in full:

The First Days

The first thing I saw in the morning

Was a huge golden bee ploughing

His burly right shoulder into the belly

Of a sleek yellow pear

Low on a bough.

Before he could find that sudden black honey

That squirms around in there

Inside the seed, the tree could not bear any more.

The pear fell to the ground,

With the bee still half alive

inside its body.

He would have died if I hadn’t knelt down

And sliced the pear gently

A little more open.

The bee shuddered, and returned.

Maybe I should have left him alone there,

Drowning in his own delight.

The best days are the first

To flee, sang the lovely

Musician born in this town

So like my own.

I let the bee go

Among the gasworks at the edge of Mantua.

Devin Kelly's avatar

"The best days are the first / To flee"...whew. Haven't read this one before. Thank you, Jeff! Appreciate you.

Patty Joslyn's avatar

Your heart and words continue to WOW! me...xoP

Devin Kelly's avatar

thank you, Patty!

Amanda Wald Rachie's avatar

Thank you for this healing heartening sustaining post.

Devin Kelly's avatar

thanks always, Amanda

Rachel King's avatar

Oh my goodness, I had forgotten about "Today I Was Happy, So I Made This Poem." I love that one. And thank you, as always, for your own insights.

Devin Kelly's avatar

it's a stunner...I adore it. thank you for reading!

Leanne Cooper's avatar

We do indeed each carry a mountain on our backs. Your choice of words always stops me in my tracks. Thank you!

Devin Kelly's avatar

thank you, Leanne!

Mariah's avatar

"The further we get from mystery, the further we get from each other, and the further we get from ourselves."

So true.

And I think the 'mean trick' of the devices you speak of is that they send us further Away from ourselves, our own inner knowing and connection, and they foment doubt in our own wisdom.

I had an EMT instructor who taught me to keep the machinery firmly in its place as a tool but not to let it override what only my own human senses and intuition, if you will, could provide.

Devin Kelly's avatar

further away from ourselves! yes -- a thousand times, yes. thanks always for reading.

els's avatar

i subscribed just after reading pilgrims, which i bought after seeing online the passage that mentions cheetahs. love your insight into these two poets whom i so adore <3

Devin Kelly's avatar

thank you so much!

Dilara's avatar

"to consider the unseen depth in each of us, that massive and invisible ocean we keep dammed up, this place we have no language for and yet is what all language is reaching for."

Just beautiful, to find depth in each other through the understanding of death. You have a very profound way of writing, really enjoyed the read.